Lessons for little donkeys

In the copy room at school, I found a lesson for students on "Disagreeing Appropriately". It seemed a good thing to offer all the donkeys out there that are going to have to be out there disagreeing with the Repubicans that are surrounding us. So here's the shortened version:
Step 1. Look at the person (this shows youy are paying attention...don't stare or make faces, smile/be pleasant)
Step 2. Use a pleasant voice (so people are more likely to listen to you...don't mumble, speak slowly, use short sentences, keep a comfortable distance from the other person, smile)
Step 3. Say "I understand how you feel." (because understanding gives the talk a positive start...plan what you're going to say before you speak, discuss your concerns as part of a converation not a confrontation, be sincere).
Step 4. Tell why you feel differently (using vague words leads to confusion...give as much detailed info as possible, be prepared to back up what you say, and again think before you speak).
Step 5. Give a reason (your disagreement will carry more weight if you have a valid reason, be sure your reasons make sense, support your reason with facts and details, one or two reasons is usually enough, stay calm).
Step 6. Listen to the other person (shows you respect what the other person has to say, don't look away or make faces, don't interrupt, again stay calm, don't argue)
*Please note the instructions TWICE say to smile, stay calm and think before speaking.
So go out there to the various meetings, conversations and political settings that await donkeys this election season and legislative session and give this a try. DG is trying and hopes you will too!